When I called him this morning, it was about S17 car wreck, and since I wasn't at work, he asked why, so I told him about Attorney appointment (I don't lie). So, it sort of went from there, and I did thank him for his time and seeming willingness to take a step back and look.
The OW is sort of out of the picture so he says. She no longer works for him (got job without long commute). This was an EA that supposedly only had a "one time" thing to it which happened in July I think. However, H says they "will always be friends". (*gag*)
As for coming home, no I really don't want him in my bed. The throught of him touching me right now makes me sick! We don't have a spare room (D24 is in there). But he could sleep with S17 in his room I suppose. He is just NOT going to bring THAT bed into my house! Maybe that would be a good time for him to see the changes in me. And I'm pretty sure that with the way I feel now, I could maintain detachment. But, I'm still very afraid!
I have actually already talked with the C and said I plan to keep my mouth shut as much as possible because I ALWAYS lead. I thought I would give him the books there during the session because he might be more likely to look at them since the C recommends them too. I won't say anything. Just hand them to him, and leave it to the C to follow up from there. In fact, I have an IC with the C the day before, maybe I'll give them to him that day and then he can give them to H during the MC session.
I'll think of the list you suggested and try to get back tonight with it. I am headed home now from work.
Again, Snodderly, I do thank you for your kind support.
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
