SD...one thing is for sure. Whether she is with another man or not...you still have a daughter between the two of you and lines of communication must always be kept open. Anyting I have read says it is unhealthy for OP's to be introduced to a child at this point.

If you are not going to contact an L, I assume that either you still have hope for reconciliation...or fear..or...????

Do you see her coming back to you?
Could you ever get over what happened and have trust again?

A few days ago, my W asked me to pick up our son from school. She was sick. Last Saturday, she stayed out to past midnite. I believe probable OM.

Keep your feet based mostly in reality. Do you remember the fable of the Emperor's New Clothes?

Stay tough. FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;