I hear what you are saying, and that's what makes me so confused!! He has agreed to MC and we are going this Thursday. He seems to be finally seeing that he's been "running amok". And he's been in IC for 6 months, but hasn't been fully honest. He now agrees to be honest and really look in the mirror. So are you say I shouldn't go to MC with him? What is that if not "R" talk? And financially we can't do the apartment AND keep the "dream house" we built past year end. He knows that, and has already talked about coming back to our house because it needs a lot of work and only he can do it. But I'm afraid that that will just be doom for us because we are not ready for that! We are really at a point where we have to make a real financial decision but I don't want him to come back just because he doesn't want to lose the other house. But I don't want to lose it either! But, if we divorce, I don't want him moving some other woman in there either! We are under the gun both time wise and financially! I don't know what to do!
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
