I sent my reply to my L today. In it I stated that I do not think it is reasonable that H has no responsibility in fixing up things to sell the home, that I feel like H is dictating all of the sale agreement and I should have some say in it. I asked that he work on the outside which needs major clean up. I am sure he won't.
I had originally asked that noone come see the house after 3 on weekdays.....I thought h would realize that this is the time when d13 is home alone until I get home from work. Noone should be allowed in the home if she is alone. I guess I had to spell it out for him through the lawyer. He didn't like this condition. Idiot.
I made many other points to my L, I won't bore you with them, and I also asked her about removing H from my health insurance. I will not be his doormat anymore. I will wait for her reply. I want his lawyer to tell him this.
H was by on Saturday and I said hello and that was it. Done. I didn't stay downstairs with him and d13 and I didn't speak to him again. I am hurt and angry.
H didn't come by Sunday. I was told by a family member that he did not stay at his parent's house over the weekend. Probably another night in a hotel with MOW. I know he lied to d13 and said he had to work all day sunday. Trust me when i say that I know he lied to her. This for fact. If he only knew that she cried last night because he had to work and didn't get to see her. If he was really working, he would have come up in the morning.
So, for now, I am putting H and all of his lies and issues to the side. I know once he gets wind of the fact that I am taking him off my insurance, I will hear about it. I think I have carried him long enough. Even his family thinks so.
I am tired of this whole crisis. I am tired of being played the fool. I am tired of my children being hurt. He is in God's hands....and I am afraid he is going to be lost for a long time to come.
