Yes more pay came with the promotion..probably about 10% more. Sometimes I feel like putting pressure on H saying that OW has a week to leave -- either both of you or her. But if she doesn't leave and I turn them in I don't want them to say I am harassing them.

D15 called -
H just sent her another text -- saying he misses her, and he is there for her and loves her. She tells me she is sending a text back -- Right now I do not want to see you, talk to you or text you. You have lost my trust and I do not respect you.
I told her think about it for 1/2 hour before you send it and not to send it in anger (unlike her Mom)

OMG my girls are tough.

Will see how we feel when older D flies in about the poster. Might make for some fun for Thanksgiving.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09