Hi TxMom, One question about the OW and work?? Does the OW and H work in the same department or does one report to the other? I think I asked this before. Because if H is bringing her to office parties I think that the boss should have issues with this? Find out if there is a code of ethics in his work place and what the company policy is for dating co-workers.
That is why I know my H is serious about hiw OW because she directly reports to H and he used to be so ethical so I know how muddled his brain is to continue this A. If I had heard that another co-worker was dating their boss I would report it to Mgmt but it is my H? If I tell I lose all financial support but ethically it is bothering me because it could reflect on me if they are found out and asked if I knew about it.
Keep your head up. We have our dignity and we can hold our heads up. We should not have to feel their shame.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
