Nothing new, same old frustrations and still party

[ernest88]

OK..Arthur..spell some things out for me as I don't follow..

I finally lost it in the car on the way there. Sheer frustration got the better of me and I got out the car near place and walked last bit with a ciggie in the rain.

this means what..upset, crying??

Mediation was pointless, STBX will not play fair, so we did it all

explain we did it all..

I also found out a lot of other stuff like the first A was premeditated for months via texts, she is also seeing someone (that does not bother me but explains why she so desperate for me to have kids overnight last few weeks),

her drama..unless of course you plan on using it against her in some way. I mean you knew she had multiple A's right??

but when telling me anything hurtful, she would ensure it was done in a super hurtful way and also with an evil smirk on her face as if I deserve it.

her trying to put you on the coaster..don't let her.

I really feel at a loss for what to do now.

go see your L..try to get visitation set and on paper. try to get equitable distribution of assets..you have a ways to go buddy..

now..from me to you A..this is my second time around..do not let anger and bitterness take you ..it is easy to do..

pick yourself up, dust yourself off, you'll be oK..