Searching for a way out #3

[Little Engine]

mC--Just catching up. Your S gets the most logical thinker award for buying the DVD vs. the one-shot trip to the theater. That made me laugh as it is something my S would probably say. For him and D that the W let them down on the fruitless trip for a toy thing probably reaffirmed that their mom isn't the mom they remember. What happened when S came in from the car? Did he come looking for you? I would think W moving in with grandparents will just be a disaster that disenfranchises her from her family further. She isn't going to want to take care of grandmother if she isn't willing to own up to being a good mother to her own children. Maybe she is looking for validation that she isn't such a horrible person by being the caregiver to her grandmother. So now she is failing your kids, what happens when she starts failing her family by foregoing her caregiver duties to go out and party? She is trying to find the easiest way out where she doesn't look any worse than what she already does IMO. More craziness from our W's!