So she has been emailing and IMing a little? And kisses at the bottom! I would have to take that as a positive.
I dont blame you on the financial position, depspite the OM, you want to be fair and your son to be well cared for, so dont feel guilty about it. I had soooo many people telling me to take half of a house we joint own.. but he inherited it 3 years ago from his Dad, morally, it isnt mine, I dont want a penny, we just own it on paper as we bought out his brother. It amazes me how people behave over money in breakups. So dont think wtf, do what feels morally right for you?
Its great that you got to spend the day hiking (?) with her.. what does the OM think about that !?? And did you say that the OM is a bit horrible? I dont know what your W is thinking, like alot of these WAS. No doubt, she will regret it, like so many others!
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread