Yes, suddenly your partner becomes your adversary.

Ugh! Just in the midst of an email convo with H about visitation. He wants to "resume" the 3-day/4-day visitation (that we really never had). I said no. It wasn't working out, it's confusing and hard to remain organized and disruptive to D's schedule. So he says we'll fight it out in mediation. Right. I have no intention to become a half-time mother and sacrifice what little stability D has, so that he can have everything in the world he wants. Then he asks--what do I propose that would be fair? FAIR. What a concept.


M60
H52
D20
M14 yrs
OW-old gf from 1986
bomb-5/18/08
H filed for D-9/10/08
D final 4/24/09
xH remarried (not OW) 2012