also, yesterday we saw that our kitchen sink had water under it. Last night I figured out that it was the sprayer hose that was broken so I got the parts to fix it.
I saw W for a minute this morning and told her what was wrong and what I did. She thanked me for fixing it.
I know I'm being more 'in grace', but I have trouble reading her behaviors. She still carries on with OM, with the encouragement of her friend she's living with.