Signs to say WAW woke up?

[dday101798]

Her father is back with his girlfirend and not in "her" house anymore, so things are back to the same old grind of lies and games since she has unlimited access to OM again. No more desires to friends or anything.

Blow out came on Friday, older son went missing again after school. Was finally found holed up in "her" house. W made the excuse that he doesn't want to be at "my" house as roommates kid "picks on him". I asked W why didn't anyone inform me of this? She said she addressed it with roommate, which turned out to be another B/S story. So, after ironing everything out with son, he said he wanted be by W for the weekend.

Well, I won't deprive the kid of his wish, so I took him to "W's house". She opens the door half dressed and with OM behind her. Here's a real 180*, normally, I would have snapped right then and there. didn't say or do a darn thing to him. Left child as reqeusted. Then I get home and she has other son on the phone telling him to go there too. 10 minuted later, she calls and says she's sending them back???? WTF!?!?!?!

Oh, that's right, kids would have wrecked her party plans for the night.

OH, and also on Wednesday she spent the entire afternoon wransacking "my" house to see if I've been with anyone. again, WTF? Even if I were, what difference does it make based on the circumstance?

I don't know. Father in law says there no way in hell her brother is getting the house and not to worry or listen to any of it. So I completed her request of a few weeks ago and sorted all the tapes and CD's out and put them out for her, then went dark. I also began began to 'de-wife' the house of decorations in preperation for remodeling of my own taste.

Had to call her this morning for son's coat, of which she threw on the porch and left since I was short and sweet and didnot allow any other conversation to engage.

"Ironcially" she did call this afternoon, but I declined the call an dshe left no message. I'll just let her fester it out a bit. She does know that I've had it with how the kids are being affected and am seeking legal council to the matter, so she's probably trying to get some direct insight on how that's coming along.