just when I thought things were stable...

[Livin4ME]

I did the same thing!!! What would you do if the roles were reversed?! Would you like that I had some guy I had just met around the kids...overnight even!? His response was just like your stbx..."It's your life and I can't make you stop doing something you want to do. It's not my business."
Makes you wanna kick them in the head doesn't it!? When kids are involved it is your business dummy!
Especially if your the custodial parent and you have to deal with your kids emotions. And they don't always handle emotions well...they act out and such instead. And I've learned, not only with my S's acting out, but his emotions usually come out at night when he's tired and he just wants his dada to lay with him before bed. But stbx doesn't see that happen. And I've actually mentioned to him in the past and his response, "just call me when that happens." And I have and then S gets even more upset when he doesn't answer his phone. uggghh