thanks liv! sad thing is, he still doesn't see this, I mentioned the above scenarios to him and all he said was "we dissagree, those are your thoughts" and, "if I had a male friend & he stopped coming that wouldnt' make kids upset" and!!! : "I won't be introducing anyone one else to kids", but the damage is done and it's making me so upset.
I said "what if I were to go out with man after man and would have kids meet them, what would you think?" he said that he wouldnt' mine, that it was my life to do as I please and doesn't see anything wrong. ARGHHHHHHHHHHHHH

Ok, so he does have kids on almost all his days off, he still had mornings offs and sometimes doens't go to work until late, his lack of common sense baffles me.

And now I'm beating myself for having insisted he had kids this past Sunday, he said he had "tickets" to somewhere and couldn't have them, but I told him he hadn't had kids for a while. Instead of postponing seeing her he brought her along, and he took off the day before !! this man is just so...@#$@#, words fail me, I'm so glad I see how he is now, I actually wished for a while to perhaps in the future think of us again, but heck no, he's still a jerk who hasn't learned anything.

Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.