Trying2live-Post #4

[faithrunner]

T2L, I am praising God for your weekend, and I understand your sadness the next day. The night before was good, normal, like your marriage should be. So, it's natural to feel a loss when he leaves after something so good. I know that you are going to continue to create those moments for him, and you will become closer. You have worked so hard and been so faithful, I am really proud of you.

Marisol, I think your H's call was a good sign! And, you handled it well. He was curious about you and that party. That's always a good thing. If he didn't care he wouldn't have called.

And, Dash, your statement, "it's always darkest before dawn", really inspired me today. Thanks for stopping by and offering your opinion. Please come back! I will visit your newcomers thread today.

Hope, I hate having to be the "bigger person" in all of this, too. But, I really think H's are in their own private h##l b/c they wonder what is wrong with me. They can see how we've changed, the confidence, how happy, how great we look. Then they look at themselves: lost, gaining weight, unhappy, feeling sick. They know their lives are turned upside down. That's why they'll say over and over what we did wrong and why they have left, so they don't have to face themselves. And, because they are still too proud to say they were wrong.

I'll update on my weekend in a few minutes.