PM is right. Don't believe any of what you hear!! My H told me the very same words, that he wanted to marry OW, and they don't even live together and see eachother maybe once a week! He said when he sees himself in 10yrs it's with her. I said, 10 years? She'll be in assisted living by then! (ok, not nice but she's 10 yrs older and I had to get a dig into his little fantasy world)

They are in a fog, and you know what he says is total bunk. PM is right, he's thinking another move will make him happier. My H was obsessed with moving for the same reason, so much easier than having to deal with his own issues.

I am so sorry this happened to you this weekend. You are a great person and you don't deserve all this pain. This is not b/c of you. This is HIM!!!


Me:33, H:34
T10, M8
S4,S3,S9m
ILYBINILWY 11/07
Separation 1 2/08-8/08
Back Home 8/08-10/08
Separation 2 10/08-
Too many bombs to count:(