T2L - Your plan has been working so good for you. I am happy for you. I know you have no expectations but the response your getting from H is very promising. I am praying for you and all the ladies here every day.

Hope - I use to be just like you. I would think about H and OW at his house, what they would be doing on the weekends like shopping or going to the movies, etc. It was very painful. But soon enough I just started to plan things for myself and keep myself busy. Now I'm looking forward to my weekends because I have things I am planning with friends or just for myself.

I pray to be in your shoes T2L one day soon where I can see H and have him close again. I have not seen H since Oct 15th. I have not talked with him on the phone since Oct 21st.

I'm ordering SAA today from Amazon....

Me35/H35
D16/SS14
M-1yr/known H 18yrs
1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35
2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21
Moved out 8/21/08
H filed D on 9/9/08

God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.