My miserable updates are on my thread so please please read and post.. T2L I know you don't leave this thread much but could use it...
I have finished Surviving and Affair.... not anywhere near a Plan A if it ever happens..yesterday was hard with all his answers.... I'm still so sad and just can't believe it. So my H boss and a few other co-workers do know and they have been around her....
I'm reading "for women only" very good book... author interview many men and it is the intermost thoughts that make or break a man down... it is good and sad as I realize little things I did that broke our marriage down....
T2L - I can't imagine sleeping with my H and snuggling and heck yeah you should be sad... not normal if you weren't... He lives with the OW right? What could he possibly be telling her why he is staying out?? crazy.... so good and it is going text book for you.... but as you know he needs to make a decision ... hopefully you have it all planned out how you are going to explain why you stop communication. I pray this works...
go to my post and give insight... I'll pop on and off today.
xoxo
Me: 38/H:40 M:7yrs TG: 10yrs 2Girls: 4yr & 7 month old Bomb 8/22/08 OW/EA/PA 8/23/08 with 25yr old Moved out 9/22/08