been trying to deal with my sitch, and feel what i need to feel. i find this place to be somewhat of a damper to the pain, and while its good sometimes, i just need to feel it all, the beautiful highs, and the incredible pain of the lows.
glad to hear your W is seeking professional help. that should give you some hope. its a long journey she'll be on, my ex-BIL was also BiPolar, and it took a while to get the medication right. one issue he had was that the medication would help, and he'd decide that he didnt need it anymore.
that anger/disbelief is completely understandable, i feel the same way. that my STBXW would leave me, break up our family, so that she can run around with an OM that is clearly using her to get back at his XW. and that she would do it in a way that would leave me with the pain of knowing that i can never trust her again, and maybe never trust anyone else.
but keep up what you're doing, stay strong, be there if your W needs you.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
