T2L, you have been doing terrific. It is good to see that you have some non-positive thoughts once in a while otherwise you would not be human. You have a right to be sad. It has to be hard to let H go back to OW. But your Plan A has been very successful. I think I still have too much resentment to have an effective Plan A for now. I have to work on the love bank and I can barely do that without blowing up. Today is sad because I think that H is off with OW and here I sit. We should be the ones that off together and it sorta punched me in the stomach when I got his e-mail that he is off. But I took a walk around the building, did a bit of ranting and now I wil go to Yoga. I have to stay focused. My oldest D has a C appt this week. Now she has decided she wants NC with H. Sometimes I think he will just disappear with OW never to be seen again.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
