Nope 2x4 absolutely welcome. It took me a couple of days to see what you saw in my writing, glad I came to the same conclusion, reinforcs my thoughts and made me feel much better. I just posted this phone call from her best friend. My W life is now having serious boundaries set, even by her friends. Timing is everything. I can't really read much into it other than the fact that all my earlier observations are now at least being confirmed by he other people closest to her right now. There is the possibility, my W's friend thinks, that she may be close to admitting she has made a mistake. She slso used your glass box analogy which made me laugh.