Well the W's best friend called me this morning. She wanted to drop me a line because there are things going on that she feels I need to know about. First, she told the W that she didn't care much for her "boyfriend" and really doesn't want to ever see him again. She told me that my W had mentioned the pics being down and made the commnet "I'm glad he's moving on". She said you'd have to be an idiot to believe that commnet. She says she is contradicting herself quite a bit. Her commnet was she was never a liar, and now I am catching her lying in every conversation. She told me she believes my W is lying tyo make herself feel better about her situation. I offered nothing in this conversation. I just recevied, didn'ty analyze didn't offer an opinion.
This is her best friend and she seriously believes my W's dispotion and life are getting worse. She lies more now than when this started, she is truly not happy and she literally has no friends. She thinks the crash is iminent. She also thinks it will be sooner than later. Her telling the W that she doesn't care for the boyfriend has set a boundary with her friends. She asked how I was doing. I told her fine, keeping busy, whatnot.. She then asked if I was prepared to possibly take her back. I thought that was odd. Told I would be prepared as long as she was prepared to come back and commit. Apparently the W is hearing from the grapevine that I have a life, going to the gym, line dancing lessons that she just found out about last night , going to parties and getting invited out to dinners. HEr commnet to that was, "Well he seems to be moving forwrd, good for him, at least one of us is."
This friend of the W is very, very close to her. She says she is seeing the things I told her about 3 months ago. she said she kind of saw them, but she says now they are blatant. This woman is not a BS type of person, not is she a gameplayer. She is like a sister to me so she doesn't sugar coat anything. She told me that my W doesn't look happy but plays the game like she is. She is definitely saying things to make her decision look positive. All of this I know from the book. She thinks her telling my W what she thought of her "friend" may open her eyes. She offered to me, at the end of the phone call, that my W is in serious denial about the fact that she has made the biggest mistake of her life and guilt is written all over her face. She told me to be prepared, I may be getting a phone call soon....Don't really know what she meant, not really getting my hopes up...She wants me to come over tomorrow night to see her and her husband because she wants to tll me things that she can't over the phoe. Positive things...
