That is what she is telling me.I just so confused if its the truth.If I ask her you thinking about coming home but need time she says no I am no. Then tells me I just need time I am not leading you on. Its like she wants me to wait around so she can make up her mind on what to do. I do understand what you saying though,why cant she just tell me that I am so torn by this that i make a mistake n push the divorce on her and she was honest