No red flags about the poly side, we both went into it very much aware of it all.

I'll definitely add a bit more, but one of the lengthier pieces I wrote about it back in February is out there and covers a lot of it: http://polyamoryonline.org/smf/index.php?topic=2100.0

And no real names are used. \:\) I simply have a hard time with the W, H, etc abbreviations since it doesn't "read" well to me.