Thank you, BeingMe. I really appreciate it. I really do try to stay out of his way. I hate having to ask him for money, hate being dependent in that way. I'll be so glad when we get the custody/support thing worked out. Until then, it feels like he can walk all over me with D. It's been 5 1/2 months; basically everything has gone his way and he has all he wants except a finalized divorce, and that's in the works. I just don't understand the need to continue to punish me for whatever he's punishing me for.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012