Carpenter..we definitely won't turn this into the thread of useless info..but I Do have to say that your (all of our) philanthropic adventures will have great benefits to ourselves and our kids and hopefully our WAS's also
AND..I hope your day today is good!!
Me:39 H:40 D18/S12 M20/T21 Bomb 10/11/08 One Two Three Four
Carpenter..by the way, MC and I decided the new word for tomorrow will be "photogenic" Hope you are doing ok and having a busy and fun weekend, which is why u are not on here posting.
I am actually at a point where my own sitch is so......boring and unemotional anymore that I don't want to post about it!!
Friday while driving home I decided to "drop the rope" as they say. I really just need an end to all this mess!!
My GAL lately is thru the roof!! Those of you on FB can see some funny stuff from my past.
Couple things from my weekend
A little snooping....W has $300 left with her attorney!! She talked to OM on Tuesday for about an hour....doesn't even hurt....poor woman....OM has a GF but my W is "in love with him"!! LOL
Actually had a nice weekend with W.
Friday I was home and showered and dressed before her, kids were at sleepovers, I was OTD 5mins after she walked in....she stayed home...I got home about 1:30. We has breakfast on Saturday, chatted about kids stuff, ran some errands, almost like real people!!
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM
W is incharge of bachelorette party for her boss so that is her sat nite. She gets home at 5am and wakes me up to tell me she is home. I tell her she did not need to do that...can I please go back to sleep.
Sunday was 2348483929hrs of cheerleading competition. Just me and W....all alone...almost normal. She actually comments about me being in her "space" and how that could affect things...LOL.
After competition D12s team is going to Chilis. W says no...we have to pick up D9 and it's late. D12 starts crying....W storms away. I ask W what she wants me to do. First she says tell her let's go....next breathe...give her some money...let her go we have to pick up D9.
Me and W leave...she is mad!! All of this is very hard on her..why didn't I back her up....you can't see this stuff after 11 years...etc etc.
We argue almost the whole way home. Every arguement leads to our D...I was partiall to blame for keeping it going...I am so sick of walking on eggshells!!! I did not yell...no cursing from me...a few truth darts....of course I have to mention OM and phone call.
We go pick up D9 and head home. W heads to her cave...I pretty much get kids squared away and head to bed myself.
Nothing really phased me...W angry as usual...she is so in love with OM...by her own words...it kinda makes ya sick....and laugh at the same time.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM