Hey Dash! Welcome! No you're not busting. A lot of times when I post I say spouse, just in case there ever is a male that pops on and reads.

I agree with you totally there is always hope!

Me-38 H-38
Married 18years
Daughter-17 & Son-9
Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08
Left home 5/08/08
Moved in with OW 08/01/08

The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family.
-- Lee Iacocca