W is incharge of bachelorette party for her boss so that is her sat nite. She gets home at 5am and wakes me up to tell me she is home. I tell her she did not need to do that...can I please go back to sleep.
Sunday was 2348483929hrs of cheerleading competition. Just me and W....all alone...almost normal. She actually comments about me being in her "space" and how that could affect things...LOL.
After competition D12s team is going to Chilis. W says no...we have to pick up D9 and it's late. D12 starts crying....W storms away. I ask W what she wants me to do. First she says tell her let's go....next breathe...give her some money...let her go we have to pick up D9.
Me and W leave...she is mad!! All of this is very hard on her..why didn't I back her up....you can't see this stuff after 11 years...etc etc.
We argue almost the whole way home. Every arguement leads to our D...I was partiall to blame for keeping it going...I am so sick of walking on eggshells!!! I did not yell...no cursing from me...a few truth darts....of course I have to mention OM and phone call.
We go pick up D9 and head home. W heads to her cave...I pretty much get kids squared away and head to bed myself.
Nothing really phased me...W angry as usual...she is so in love with OM...by her own words...it kinda makes ya sick....and laugh at the same time.
H 34 W 31 M 11yrs D 11 D 9
6-1-08 I wanted to fix marriage 6-11-08 I found out about OM