You get a gold star and sparklers... I love how you approach things and keep your focus on what's most important.. the kids.
How does it feel as he removes what is 'his' from the house? Does it bring relief?
I'm in the opposit position where spouse has little to do with his kids by his choice... perhaps because they're older. It still sucks for them not to have much time with their father.
I figure the better I am at directing my emotions at spouse rather than the other, it works better. A big chunk of muck just fell off recently. I feel so much better. Capable, and knowing I can take care of things.. except.. god help me.. PAPER. I hate all this paper crap!
