I too need to get back to work but reading through your post there is allot of the same things I am going through. I will try to come back later.. BUT one thing I say something about is the "bed".
WOW... I had a hard time dealing with the thought that my W (I think) picked up her OM at the airport and give him a "ride" pun intended.. To the motel. Thinking of him in OUR van was hard for me. BUT OUR BED!!!!!!!!!! I would have wanted a new bed anyway...
I saw this "Cops" show that they had a report of this guy burning a mattress in the street. When they got there they talked to the guy and he told them he found his wife in bed with OM in that bed so he was burning it.
The cops let him go because there was no law against burning your own stuff...
Later Doc
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
