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are you enjoying our cold weather???


Quite frankly...NO! I am not enjoying the weather. It is not my favorite season. \:\) I have to literally hide the girls summer clothes, they hate bundling up. lol But if snow comes, then I am happy.

Oh and broken, I would like to *think* I would be handling this the same if OW were still in the picture (who knows if she is, but supposedly she is working on her marriage), but I don't think I would be. I do not want the girls around her. Someone new would also suck but at least that person didn't contribute to the end of my marriage. Make sense? Anytime something happens with a new girl (if I catch wind of something from xH) I chant to myself, "At least its not ____ (OW)"

gForce, thank you so much for the link.

GF, my girls were Sharpey and Gabriella (from High School Musical, since you have boys, I wasn't sure if you knew! hee!)for Halloween. They are sooo funny.

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All of a sudden she doens't want to go with stbx and I dont' know how far to push that, to talk stbx into letting her stay with me? to just make her go even if she doesn't want to?


I will face this too in the future. nocodeblues already deals with this from time to time as well. I suppose I would say to my girls "Well, this is Daddy's time. Mommy will get tons of errands and cleaning done while you are gone, that way when I see you again, I won't have anything to do but play play play!". Its a hard balance between letting them choose and forcing them, I think. UGH

xH took the huge TV last night. It was decided months ago that he would, and I am fine with it (other than his clothes and tools, that's all he is taking). He was very weird last night about it, asking to take it, then saying "Oh its ok, I'll get another one, you keep this one. I was waiting til you were ready". I said "I think I am ready for you to take a TV that we already agreed upon, take it". He put our old TV (not really old, and still big, just not *as nice* lol) back in its place, and hooked it up.

D6 walked downstairs this morning and said "What did Daddy do??". They weren't upset when I told them Daddy took it to Grandpa's so he has a big TV to watch. D6 said "Yeah, Grandpa's old and needs a big TV to watch". lol Love those girls.