Yes JCJ, I am doing great. I didn't think there was life after my STBXH left.
It is hardest on the kids. I gave my STBXH 4 years to wake up and come home and now that I have let go, the kids blame me. I take it in stride though. It is hard for them. They had hope as I did and I guess with going ahead with the divorce, it makes it more real to them.
Plus, they have had me to themselves the last 4 years and now that I have met someone, they are afraid I won't be there for them. WRONG...my kids come first. I am taking things slow.
