hey there, welcome, sounds like you are handling things well, glad you can mediate (I did too, saved numerous ks that way!) just make sure a L sees it first. I'm always recommending books, a good one to read pertaining kids is "The Co-Parenting Survival Guide: Letting Go of Conflict after a Difficult Divorce" by Elizabeth Thaye
and for you "the spiritual D"
There will be times when you will feel you have it all under control, then before you know it the whole thing will come down on you like a ton of bricks, expect it, brace for it and know you will be stronger and do better as time goes by.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
