H called this morning, pushing again. Texted me 4 times the other day, some nasty. I will not go there. Reminded him I am not vengeful, he says if I drag it out for 2 yrs he will make it hard on me-probably meaning he'll make me refinance instead of giving me time to do so. Why do things have to get nasty? I have no money for a lawyer or I would be progressing on this crap. Life loves to throw things at us.


Me 43 H 44 S-13 D-9
Separated 90 days 6/28/05
H Says he is done-10/2/06-day after 18th anniv
Moved out 10/2/07-to father's house-day after 19th wedding anniv-GF now
H Filed for D 7/08