Sir, I feel the same way about her making the effort. The daycare provider asked her about us attending.
Things were going well with my wife and I last month, however it was me making the effort to reach out. She responded well, but I do agree with you. At some point in time she needs to take the initiative.
After a couple of anger spews, I withdrew. I felt like there needed to be some sort of boundary put in place in regards to her treatment of me.
I honestly do believe she would like me to go and doesn't know how to ask. (pride, fear or maybe keeping that safety net??)
I agree 100% with you. She does need to be the one who makes the effort to move closer. I plan on still staying dim. I have not decided what I will do yet. I think I'll wait and see if she brings the topic up or asks me to go.
