Originally Posted By: tiredandlost
~ warning this is a vent ~

Just when you think that things are going great, this huge black cloud forms.

We got in such a huge fight today, I


Hey tal I hope you are feeling better today. Just my little tiny input..."fighting" (as long as it is not violent or in front of the kids) is not all that bad. Ok I am looking at it from the other side of the fence. (Ya know the grass is always greener?)
At least there is communication. At least feelings are being expressed.
Ya see in my sitch "Not Fighting" is the problem. I just can not get mad at my wife. It may sound funny but I wish I could.
Instead we just exist.
Don't get me wrong.. Things are better attitude wise than before but still. I wish she would do something that made me mad instead of just hurt me.
It's hard to explain but when you do argue He knows you are not happy and you tell him why. You know he is not happy and he tells you why. You both "Rock the boat" and then hold on and see what happens
In my sitch.........we both just exist....We both are unhappy... be both know something is missing. But neither one really wants to "rock the boat" so nothing gets done..
Do ya know what I mean??

Dr LOve


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know