ok its time to post

[Dawn of Hope]

SirPrize!
You must be on west coast--nobody on east coast or here in midwest is on late at night when I am!

Trapt,
No smacking...this time!

So...I am also unclear about who asked you to join Bible study. Was it your W or was it the daycare people? I think if your W invites you herself, indicates she would like you to go, and it is something you would be interested in doing anyway, go ahead. Otherwise, I'm not sure it would be a good idea.

I'm not sure what to suggest about the "he's not talking to me" thing, as I am kind of dealing with that right now myself. When I see my H (we are still living in the same house, BTW), I am friendly, ask about his day, and so on, keeping it very light to avoid "pursuing"...but I periodically hear things like, "Are you ever going to talk to me?" to which my response has been, "Sure, what would you like to talk about?" which just seems to irritate him and he shuts down. <cue "Twilight Zone" music here> So I don't know how much help I can be there.

On the confusion...my H has been telling me how confused he is for a solid year. I think it is all part of MLC. I have a dear friend (female) who is also going through MLC (she started getting wacky two or three years ago), and she is the same way, and WILL NOT accept certain conclusions that conflict with her warped MLC views. I have mostly given up trying to persuade her (or my H, but I'm DBing him big-time) of these things and just hope she (and my H) come(s) back from la-la land sometime this century. Since we're only 8 years into the century...it's gonna be a LOOOOONG trip.

Remember, consistency is key! So...patience x 100000!

Peace,
Dawn