Hey Ready, have you made a list of small goals? What are they? I know when I thought STBXH might be trying to come back I had a list so I could watch for small signs of progress. The key is to not be completely focused on the signes because they can consume you. You sound like you are doing really well and staying strong. Glad to hear there was some progress with you and your wife.


Broken Hearted
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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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