Doesn't it feel strange? I've often wondered why it took DBing to help me see this. And why we were not exposed to such affirming tools from childhood (posted by Slowly)
I'm still cruising along steady & positive, like I got my groove back. It must be that I learned how to get positive by being positive. I'm still a little amazed that it works. It almost seems too simple a concept....
I'll add the affirming tools to managing finances for what I pass on to the boys.
There was something that I read from Forrest tonight (Kalni's thread?) with the two choices in toll booth collectors, that hit the nail on the head. The bottom line is positive is much more attracting & a lot less stressful in the long run.
I've come to a point where I want to move this along. I'm in the process of going over the offer H gave me a while back to come to an agreement of what I'd like. He's heading out of the country again tomorrow early, so I'll have a week to look it over.
Could be my imagination, it seems that he leaves the country or goes on a trip when thing's heat up here. It also seems that he could continue on like this for a lot longer than I'm willing to tolerate, so it's up to me to break the cycle. I will have to be served at some point though
So, I have a week to myself that I'm looking forward to enjoying interaction free.
A lot has happened this last couple of weeks that strikes me as odd for someone wanting to get away from me. As time goes by though, I think the tipping point gets nearer.
