Hmmm.........Summer has posted quite a bit but I do have one disagreement with what she says.
She insinuated that you should not contact your h first, let him contact you.
PH may go awhile before she contacts him just to say hello and see how he is doing and I see nothing wrong with that. I realize we cannot get into PH's husband's mind but if she were to act as if he did not exist, he would certainly think she wants nothing to do with him.
I am of the belief that just merely saying hello every once in awhile does the heart some good.
Maybe she should just keep it light and not send anything except a simple text just simply saying hello, thinking of you and hoping you are well or some such thing.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
