Just found out from my brother-in-law that my W did not spend any time with her mother at all this weekend.

I am 99.9% sure that when I snoop (which I will), I will find that OM's visit has taken place and that's what she'll have been up to. This and all the other signs leave me in virtually no doubt.

I am sickened, outraged and disgusted to the core.

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)