Hi scrappy-
The avoidance is excruciating. If he is still at home, I would think it is a good thing that your H isn't making the D move forward. That means he isn't sure it is what he wants. I just wish I could understand what is so difficult about figuring it out. My H has been avoiding for 20 freakin' months now. He says he loves me. He doesn't want a D but especially right now, he can't put any effort into the M. I don't handle it well when he backs off and he is backing off again.

Once again I am feeling so ready to be done with this. I am not sure I have the strength to keep getting my hopes up only to have him toss me aside because he can't handle everything.

Someone please smack some sense into me!!!