I called her tonight. I asked for our tax info and a copy of the credit card statements. She asked me what was wrong and I told her nothing. She told me she knew me better then anyone, and she knew I sounded serious. I told her I wanted to talk about our taxes, and about the cell phone. Folks DBing has me second guessing myself all the time. I dot want to bring up a R talk but after 11 months I would like to clean up financial loose ends. She keeps telling me that she feels like since she moved out, she has had to buy a lot of new stuff, and that she feels she has had to foot an undo burden. I will DB, and give her the vacuum now and the printer, they are just thing I can buy new anyway. I just don’t want to be looked on as a bank, or a store. When I brought up taxes, she asked how I wanted to file, because we were not divorced. As I said before she has threatened 3 times now to file. But she hasn’t. Please I ask a wiser DBer then I for input.