Tomato, I have no great words of advice. I just feel for you right now. I will say a prayer for your continued strength. It would seem that your darling did not want to talk to you until she needed something from you....that stinks.

Me-35

Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17