Ah...I've had similar things happen over the last few months. It is hard to have to learn new things and it does make you sad to realize that you wouldn't have to learn them if only your H would get is head out of his butt and figure out that's he's wrong!!!! But, once you learn something new, you will feel empowered...like, that's one less thing I need him for!!!
I have also found that the other men I know...from work, friend's H's, even S6's football coach, are all interested in helping me do stuff that H would have normally done for me. So, you can use other folks if you have to...for the most part, they've all been willing to try to teach me how myself as well.
Hang in there...keep praying. We'll all be okay!!!
Love to you! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!