By the way, normally I'm NOT a silly girly girl, I am pretty independent on most things, carry in all the groceries, heavy stuff, get my own gas, change our water bottles out (the big 5 gallon ones), etc etc..so I dunno if this is a 180 or not for me..LOL..I know there are THINGS I depended on hub to do that he has said "good that you are doing them now"..so I dunno