YR, I'm very happy to see that you father made it home and is doing so well. It's great that your family is there to assist w/the cooking, etc. for a bit. You and you family will have so much to give thanks for on Thanksgiving this year.
My thoughts and prayers are w/you and your family. Tell your father to do exactly what his physician has told him to do. It's very important during the healing time to do exactly what has been prescribed. Your mother will need to take a rest break herself when your father is resting.
Again, I'm very happy to read your news today.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.