Hi Snodderly,
Thank you for your kind words and compassion. Your posts always mean a lot to me and make me feel a bit better.

I do think H is not at his place as his neighbour sent him and email about something to do with its sale. And I also called to check if he is really not there and nobody answered. He does not have call recognition so he couldn't know that it was me who called. I agree with you that he is depressed. He also seem to be still running from something.

Anyway, H agrees to all my conditions for the D. So at least that is good for a change.

I am looking for an office job but would only like to take a job I enjoy doing. I really hated my last job and I don't want to spend 8 hours a day anymore disliking everything. I have not given up hope of finding something. As you said, I might look for something totally different.

I went out with a GF yesterday. When we drove to the restaurant we wanted to go to, the fog was so thick that we hardly saw the road in front. The restaurant did not exist anymore and we drove home. We had such a laugh as we suddenly passed the same restaurant again about 10 minutes later. There was a detour which obviously took us back and we could not recognise where the road took us.

Thanks again for popping by - you seem to always be there for me at the right time. Have a lovely week.