I think I'm done......saddened, but strong.....

[forward]

Cheer,
You impressed me. You said what needed to be said, you cleared relationship w/your son, and you managed to hold your dignity.

Do not go to OW. You should not contact her unless you need to and there aren't too many compelling reasons to need that contact.

Your H is spinning round and round but you are seeing remorse and regret, albeit indirectly. I think you are wise to hold way back.