No big news. I was out all day with the kids, got home 5 min before we had to leave for SILs. H was fully dressed ready and waiting for us. I surprised him by leaving the kids in the car, running inside and saying, "let's go!"
He said "You guys are ready?" I said, "Yep, bag is packed with extra clothes for the kids already, Sydney is sleeping, so let's go!"
I think he was almost disappointed he didn't get to complain that i was making him late...
[censored] slept all the way to SILs then woke up just in time to go potty. Knock on wood, 3 days in underwear so far...
H tried to get pissy with me a couple times at the play (he asked me to get Gigis water cup and I couldn't find it, turns out it wasn't where HE said he had put it...whatever). At first I was taking the bait on instinct, getting defensive, etc.
After a minute I realized he seemed to be trying to find something to be mad about. I just stopped talking, looked back at the stage and then a minute later casually grabbed H's hand. He squeezed it back, then I let go. I will not get pulled into his bad mood attempts anymore.
H fell asleep on the couch last night, again. We got home after midnight, I went to bed at 1:30 and he said he couldn't sleep for some reason. He ended up on the couch all night. That is so annoying, but whatever. My little voice tells me he is still very undecided and is trying to distance himself a bit...
Oh well. I am focusing on me and the kids and getting the house in order today...
